Most satisfied when…

When do you feel most satisfied? I mean feeling confident after doing something? 

We can fulfil our desires when having the green tea ice cream with your friends in a long while or buying a new designer handbag or getting a promotion. These things make us happy. 

But only for a short while. 

What I realised is that I feel the happiest not when I have gained anything; but when I have given my best. 

What about you?

One-buttock Player

Life isn’t just about hitting the right keys.

If you ask young people if they play any instruments (especially in Hong Kong), many of them would say–yes, but not anymore. In fact, you might find many eight graders or diplomers (Is that even a word?). But why don’t they play anymore? Too busy?

Our society finds short-cuts to success and quick-fixes to problems. To many parents, playing an instrument was just another card to get their kids into their desired schools.

The great American conductor Ben Zander coined the term one-buttock player. He explains that the term is used to describe the transformation of a kid from simply hitting the keys at the right time; to loving music.

What if playing a piece is actually telling a story; a way to connect with and move the deepest emotions of your audience. What if everything we do isn’t just about hitting the right keys. What if we start treating life like an adventure rather than a game to win.

What would happen to the world if we all start becoming one-buttock players.


Link to Ben Zander’s inspirational TED talk: